Is Empathy a Good or Bad Thing?
First, let's define the term itself. It often sparks debate, and people assign different meanings to it. Empathy refers to three interrelated elements of human interaction. 1. The ability to perceive another's emotional state, feelings, or experiences. 2. Experiencing these feelings as if they were your own. 3. Creating in the other person a sense of being understood and empathized with. Accordingly, when speaking of empathy, some mean only the first element; some - first and second; and some all three. It's easy to imagine situations where these three elements arise and manifest separately. For example, an experienced investigator interrogating a suspect might be able to perceive their emotions and use this information to their advantage. However, they are unlikely to empathize with the suspect. This is a case where element #1 operates without the others. In fact, the ability to read another's state can be used against them in many situations, and then it would hardl...